I was reading an article in the newspaper the other day deseretnews.com about a local high school student who was held up in his golf game by a group of high school girls golfing in a competition and sharing a single set of golf clubs. He learned that a lot of girls high school golf teams had this same problem of only having a single set of golf clubs, which made it difficult for them to practice and compete. He decided to do something about it. He wrote some letters, made some phone calls and flyers, and started collecting equipment. In the end, he outfitted seven different high schools with several sets of clubs and lots of other equipment. All of this, because he saw a need and acted on it.
As I read this article, I thought "I want to raise children like that". I want my children to grow up to become adults and even teeanagers who see a need and act on it. I want them to have that Christ-like love for others and look for ways to help others. I then realized that if I want to raise children like that, I need to be like that myself. Most children are not going to automatically be able to identify someone else's needs and know how to help. They need examples and the best way to teach them this is to show them myself. It would be fairly hypocritical of me to tell my children "You need to help others", if I am not doing it myself.
So, I'm trying. I'm looking for ways to help my children learn to look out for others. A woman I had gone to church with as a young single adult recently passed away as she gave birth to her sixth child. ksl.com. A fund has been setup to help her family deal with medical costs, the cost of raising 5 children as a single father, etc. I explained this to my children and told them I was going to put $10 into this account and that they could put some of their money in two. My two daughters each said "I want to give $1 to them", so we're going to the bank to deposit this money. My 5 year old son didn't want to, but I'm not going to force him to. I'm just trying to get in the habit of looking for how we can help out when we hear about someone who needs help. Hopefully I can develop this quality better in my life and raise children like that.
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1 week ago
Christie, you will have children like that because that is who you are. :)
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