School is out for the summer. This means I'm reminded once again of how I have a tendency to get lazy in my parenting. When one child is usually gone all day and another one is gone half the day, I just let the little ones play most of the morning without thinking too much about "parenting". And when the older ones get home, we only have so much time to worry about things like homework and piano before I'm working on dinner or the evening's activities. So, I guess it's not just laziness but more like just going with the flow and letting life happen.
School is out and now all 5 of my children are home all day long. What to do? As much as I love having free time for the kids to just play all day, I also know they need a little structure to go along with that. I've had to do that annual soul searching of "What do I want to accomplish this summer?" or "What is it I want to do with my kids each day or have them remember about this summer?"
The summer goes by so quickly. I've been reminded of the need for deliberate parenting. What do I want to teach my children? What kind of person do I want them to be? I can't just let them go completely undirected. If I want them to enjoy reading, I need to make sure there is time to read and take them to the library to choose books. If I want them to enjoy doing things outside, I need to make sure we go up the canyon or go to the park or have the opportunity to spend time outside. If I want them to learn to help other people, I need to provide opportunities for them to do kind things for others.
I know this is something I need to work on year round, but summer is always a great opportunity for me to evaluate how I'm "parenting" my children and what I'm doing to help them become the wonderful people I'd like to see them become.
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